Here is an interesting story of a dad done wrong by the woman he intentionally proposed to and married. And yes, for the Isabella Soriano’s of the world, I love my kid’s and at one point loved a psycho lunatic!

I am twice over the unwitting person that has been bitten by the .06% chance that the birth control pill has some flaws. Yes thats, correct, twice within 2.5 years. She is a pathalogecal liar as you will soon see so I’m fairly certain that she may have not been completely honest here.

Short story I will try to be quick: We have two wonderful children, without my consent whatsoever. Keep in mind I’m convinced she is on her on agenda and my thoughts or wants didn’t really enter the picture. She gets psycho.

Quick psyco behaviour synopsis:
-Following me around and making sure I did what she wanted and when she wanted
-Digging through personal stuff.
-Showing up unnanounced at comapany happy hours with a smile on her face all the while twisting her thumb and finger into my sides as she is doing it.
-Unloading a 6 shot revolver (Mine) into my stereo when I decided that I was going to the beach for two days with my friends no matter what she said.

I know what your thinking. Your wrong….all of this occurred BEFORE we ever had any children. Subsequently I was not interested in having children at this point. However, I am the .06% failure rate of the pill and we have our first child. I’m a mans man, bone up and do the right thing right? OK, this I do.

Her psycho behaviour worsens and suddenly I find myself trapped in the most God awful relationship known to male or female. All the while I am again the unfortunate recepient of the .06% failure rate of the pill yet again!

I’ve had enough of this loon! I move out because it is just a bad situation all around. We talk, him and haw about what we are going to do and VIOLA, out of nowhere I am served with Divorce proceedings. I contact an attorney, he says we have to file a counter denial and then have our day in court. I talk to her and tell her of this flat denial I must do (HUGE MISTAKE!!) and she goes nuts. Tells me dont do that. We can and will just work this out amongst ourselves. Bravo Sierra my friend.

Long story short, too late, she went ahead and got the divorce without my knowledge, continued to deal with me as if nothing happened, filled the divorce decree full of forgeries, lies and out and out ridiculous division of property. (How this thing made through a court anywhere is a complete mystery to me). It has child support payments of over 2000 per month in it. I found out 2 years and 3 months after the fact. With penalties et al I am close to 100K in a arrearages. All the while I hade paid her for numerous things. However, none of these are court documented and they may as well as never occurred. I paid for a house that I didnt own anymore for over a year!

That was 2001-2003. I have had attorney after attorney, including the Attorney General, to no avail. She cleaned my clock good and as far as I can see I am just screwed. I have had my child support modified but all the arrearages are still there and as long as I draw air in this crazy world I will owe her that money.

Again, I love my kid’s and strangely enough we have a great relationship. Thank God I think they are getting old ennough to see that Mom’s just a little out there to put it lightly.

I know that there are “deadbeat dad’s” out there. That is what the system is supposed to fix or stop. I’m telling you that there are crazy women out there that are tooling the system and using the heavily slanted courts to their benefit.

Stan

P.S. My ex-wife still owns our 500K house and put in an 85K inground pool/spa/waterfall two years ago. My current assests consists of some run down furniture and a truck that I’m probably 5-6K underwater on the note. Makes sense! Ya gotta laugh!

I am twice over the unwitting person that has been bitten by the .06% chance that the birth control pill has some flaws. Yes thats, correct, twice within 2.5 years. She is a pathalogecal liar as you will soon see so I’m fairly certain that she may have not been completely honest here.

Short story I will try to be quick: We have two wonderful children, without my consent whatsoever. Keep in mind I’m convinced she is on her on agenda and my thoughts or wants didn’t really enter the picture. She gets psycho.

Quick psyco behaviour synopsis:
-Following me around and making sure I did what she wanted and when she wanted
-Digging through personal stuff.
-Showing up unnanounced at comapany happy hours with a smile on her face all the while twisting her thumb and finger into my sides as she is doing it.
-Unloading a 6 shot revolver (Mine) into my stereo when I decided that I was going to the beach for two days with my friends no matter what she said.

I know what your thinking. Your wrong….all of this occurred BEFORE we ever had any children. Subsequently I was not interested in having children at this point. However, I am the .06% failure rate of the pill and we have our first child. I’m a mans man, bone up and do the right thing right? OK, this I do.

Her psycho behaviour worsens and suddenly I find myself trapped in the most God awful relationship known to male or female. All the while I am again the unfortunate recepient of the .06% failure rate of the pill yet again!

I’ve had enough of this loon! I move out because it is just a bad situation all around. We talk, him and haw about what we are going to do and VIOLA, out of nowhere I am served with Divorce proceedings. I contact an attorney, he says we have to file a counter denial and then have our day in court. I talk to her and tell her of this flat denial I must do (HUGE MISTAKE!!) and she goes nuts. Tells me dont do that. We can and will just work this out amongst ourselves. Bravo Sierra my friend.

Long story short, too late, she went ahead and got the divorce without my knowledge, continued to deal with me as if nothing happened, filled the divorce decree full of forgeries, lies and out and out ridiculous division of property. (How this thing made through a court anywhere is a complete mystery to me). It has child support payments of over 2000 per month in it. I found out 2 years and 3 months after the fact. With penalties et al I am close to 100K in a arrearages. All the while I hade paid her for numerous things. However, none of these are court documented and they may as well as never occurred. I paid for a house that I didnt own anymore for over a year!

That was 2001-2003. I have had attorney after attorney, including the Attorney General, to no avail. She cleaned my clock good and as far as I can see I am just screwed. I have had my child support modified but all the arrearages are still there and as long as I draw air in this crazy world I will owe her that money.

Again, I love my kid’s and strangely enough we have a great relationship. Thank God I think they are getting old ennough to see that Mom’s just a little out there to put it lightly.

I know that there are “deadbeat dad’s” out there. That is what the system is supposed to fix or stop. I’m telling you that there are crazy women out there that are tooling the system and using the heavily slanted courts to their benefit.

Stan

P.S. My ex-wife still owns our 500K house and put in an 85K inground pool/spa/waterfall two years ago. My current assests consists of some run down furniture and a truck that I’m probably 5-6K underwater on the note. Makes sense! Ya gotta laugh!